FRIENDSHIP

What type of people are you surrounded by? Are they people who steer you up when you feel down or people who push you further down when you are down? 

Someone once told me ‘there are three types of people in this world, people that make you happy, people that don’t want you happy and people that don’t even care’. Which of these groups are you to your friends? and which type are your friends to you?

Are your friends the kind of people you tell your ambition to and they believe in you? Or they rather mock you, laugh at you and never believe you? If you have friends that don’t believe in your dreams and they always seem to be laughing at whatever you tell them, they never see you has capable of achieving such, please do off with them, they are not friends, rather are they the right set of people you need around.

If you can foresee your life in years time and you can’t imagine your friends anywhere around you, then I think you have the wrong sets of friends. Sure not all of them will last forever, but at least you ought to have one or two which you can imagine your life with.

Choose your friends wisely, all that glitters isn't gold, some friends are there to build and stay with you,  some to build you then leave, some are there to destroy your life and still stay to see the end of the destruction , please chase away, if you can't Chase them, then I'd  advise you stay away from them.

I have friends that have come and gone and they left huge impacts in my life. I currently have friends that are encouraging and I have some that I know I will eventually dispose,  it’s all a matter of time and reasons.

Friends have the ability to build your life and also destroy it. With only few sentences and gestures, they can turn your life around without you knowing it. Think for a moment, what impacts are your friends currently leaving in your life? Are you proud of them? can you take them to meet your parents?

‘Your partners in crime’, are they people you also do non-criminal activities with. Please think twice in choosing your friends, don’t mistake a good gesture for a good character, they are two different words with different meaning. Your friends are one of your most powerful confidants, they can reshape your life in a negative way and take you off point. Be wise.

Thanks.