Since I was in primary school, I’ve had at least one friend
with whom I did everything, either male or female and sometimes both. In
primary school, my best friend was a female, we were always together, people
even thought we were family. We were so close that we even peed the same style,
either we were both standing or we would crouch together, what did we know
then?
Someone once told me, “the kind of life we live attracts
the type of people we have has friends”. He continued and said “it’s in the
university we make the most meaningful friends that we either add to our live
or subtracts from it”.
You know the saying “show me your friend and I’ll
tell you who you are”, it is very true. Seeing one’s friends alone can give
people an insight into one’s life. Friends are very important people in your
life. There are people I wish I could be closer to, but you know this
generation, if someone starts making advances, they will start thinking
otherwise.
No
matter how small your circle of close friends is, cherish them, they are very
crucial in your life, don’t forget they will be in your bridal train or part of
your groomsmen. They would definitely give a speech on your wedding day. It’s
not all your friends you need to end the journey with. That you guys started
together does not mean you have to finish together. The fact that a friend of
yours is all fresh, rich and influential does not mean you have to be together
for ever. It is best you know when to delete some friends, block them away if
they starting to become useless and add up people you respect and cherish; send
them request. If you are a good person, they will add you up. Don’t let your
real life friends be like the ones you have on Facebook, you have over 1000
friends and you can’t even boast of knowing 100 of them.
The kind of friends you keep can
determine the kind of connection that comes your way. Do you have friends who
call you when they hear of a job opening, or they ignore and conclude for you
that you can’t get it? Do your friends write you up when they hear of an
opportunity or do they conclude for you?
Please cherish all the quality friends you have and
henceforth make the right friends.
Thanks
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